10 Things You Should Know Before
Traveling To India
1. The Traffic is Insane
Believe the hype and
the movies that show cars not sticking in the same lanes. In Delhi there are a lot of stop signs and red
and green lights, but regardless of the rules no one seems to give a damn and
no one seems to be doing anything about it. You cannot pay me to drive in India . Driving
in Kashmir and other cities like Lucknow , Aligarh , and Meerut
is even worse. I haven’t seen that many traffic lights and people indicate
their turns by honking. I’m sure it’s the near equivalent everywhere in India . I
haven’t been to every town so I don’t want to say something that’s not true but
95% of the roads I’ve been on can be treacherous if you’re not a skilled
driver. But people do get around.
2. Do not have the street food or water
This is a given. Food
is amazing but if you’re not used to the street food you’re probably going to
get sick. Most of the diseases are also water-born so instead of tap water stick
to bottled water or sodas, especially if you’re traveling to smaller villages
and towns.
3. If you’re a woman, be very careful when traveling alone
As a foreigner you’re
probably already going to get strange looks. Cover up; it’ll help. In a
conservative country, a lot of men aren’t used to tank tops and shorts. Sadly, India has been
reporting a lot of rape cases, as well. Don’t let this stop you from wandering,
though. In any country any thing is possible, just keep your guard up. Knowing
the exact direction and location when taking a cab is helpful too.
4. Become an expert at bargaining
Do not get intimidated
by the fact that you’re a foreigner. When going to street markets or shops,
bargaining is natural in India .
In my experience, vendors will often give you a high price first thinking that
you’re ‘foreign’ and that you’re not going to know it’s worth. Give bargaining
a shot. Don’t be afraid to argue.
5. Be aware of the pollution
It’s getting really
bad but it’s tolerable. I’ve had asthma so at times a little more dust and car
traffic here and there can spark it up again. Don’t feel silly wearing a mask
and or covering up with a scarf. Also, it’ll help to carry make up remover with
you. The pollution can really sneak into your skin and cause breakouts. If you
need to, clean your face as much as possible.
6. Do not pet stray dogs
I recently rescued a
newborn puppy from a dog that had been living outside my house for months. I
gave it shots immediately and had it cleaned. Dogs in India shouldn’t
be messed with. Yes, I did something risky because of the risk of rabies strays
carry but that doesn’t mean you should not try to help using safety
precautions. I saw a European couple enamored by puppies on the street and they
decided to feed and pet them. Next thing you know, a herd of dogs came to get
their share of food and it became ugly. Luckily, they escaped. The woman lost
her scarf though. There are stray dogs everywhere in India , it’s sad but you have move
along for your safety.
7. There are a lot of poor people begging for money
There’s a huge poverty rate in India — due to
the overpopulation, there are a lot of people begging for money. It sucks. It
sucks even more that most of them are children. I’m someone who gets the urge
to help everyone, so it’s hard not to help when I can. I’ve learned, however,
that you have to understand everyone has a different way of living. Begging has
become second nature. It’s a job. I went to a shrine called a “dergah” in New Delhi one day, where
you can buy food stamps for people, give the stamps out and they’ll be able to
get a plate of food. I bought so many I couldn’t keep count. It was worse when
people kept lining up and hoping you’d get a stamp for them too. You have to
tolerate it and find easier ways to help so you know you’re money is going to
necessities and not other things.
8. Dress to Respect
In certain areas and places in India , you have to know when to
cover up. It’s a different culture with different values. Even if you’re a
foreigner, you have to respect the rules if you’re visiting a shrine or some
other tourist spot. Research the dress code before going to places.
9. You’ll often hear the azan (call to prayer) played on the
loudspeakers.
In the north (and many
middle eastern countries) there’s a huge Muslim population. Especially
traveling to Kashmir and places like Lucknow and
Aligarh , you’ll
sometimes hear them played throughout the night. Respect the religion and
culture.
10. There are different dialects and very distinct cultures
throughout India .
Many people I’ve
encountered in the US
and overseas think Urdu or Hindi is the only language spoken. That’s not true.
There’s Kashmiri, Tamil, Punjabi—the list goes on. South Indians look and dress
different from North Indians. It’s a diverse country. Every part of India is different, from the beautiful beaches
in Goa and Kerala to the Architecture in Agra .
People look different and are from different cultures. A common misconception
and sadly, racially profiled remark, I’ve heard is “You don’t look Indian?” I
always fire back and ask, “What does any Indian look like?”. This confuses
them. People think Indians are always dark skinned. If you notice in many
Bollywood movies, the actresses have lighter skin tones. My point being, all
Indians look different.
11. The public transportation is like no other.
If you thought the
subway in New York is nuts, the buses and
trains are in India
are crowded like crazy. When buses or trains are moving, you’ll see a lot of
people running along and hopping on. This is not uncommon and I think it’s
sweet when people reach out a hand and help each other get on a bus or a moving
train. You have to know how to do this. It’s a skill.
12. There are a lot of guesthouses
Depending on what part
of India
you’re traveling in, sometimes families open their homes and welcome visitors
for a stay. In my opinion, it is more of a “welcome home” feel when you stay at
a guesthouse. Compared to staying in hotels (which are actually super
luxurious in New Delhi ),
guesthouses are much cheaper and you get home-cooked food. These are really
popular in Kashmir . Be aware though, in a lot
of guesthouses and households in India the mattresses are hard—but
like comfortable hard. In the US, we’re used to bed from Sleepys and Mattress
King but many orthopedic surgeons have suggested that sleeping on a harder
surface is better for your back, and from my experience it’s has done wonders.
13. There’s a tremendous respect for elders
You’ll hear kids call
you didi, aunty, bhai, or uncle. Even younger siblings refer to the elders by
bhai or didi. These are just signs of respect
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